Monday, August 23, 2010

Problem with Loud noisy roommate!!!!!! need advice?

I am having problem with loud noisy roommate at my place. My roomate and I share one washroom which is between our rooms. The washroom has two doors so each of us can enter from our room. The problem is my roommate has habits of taking her phone into the washroom while P****ng. or doing something. She does that almost everyday, especially it is very distracting while I am sleeping or watching TV or studying. Her Voice is so loud that I can hear her clearly while I m wearing earplugs or watching TV. Whenever I tell her, she stops for few days and starts again. I did it back to her while she s sleeping but didnt have much effect....I dont understand her, may be it is because we are from different cultures, normally people have consideration for other people %26amp; thats the way I was brought up. . I cannot move out for a while due to my cicumstances. I need some good advice. What is the best way to deal with these kind of people?Problem with Loud noisy roommate!!!!!! need advice?
Like don't just tell her to stop but like sit down and talk to her about how it effects you. I'm sure she'll understand.Problem with Loud noisy roommate!!!!!! need advice?
All righty.





Not going to move?





Can't get through to her?





She doesn't respect you?





Gloves are OFF.





Go for her phone while she is asleep. After you have dealt with your evening routine, drop the thing in the toilet.
I would do everything possible to move. In the meantime, see if there is another way you can get her to change. Do you do her any favors or help her in any way? If you do, tell her you won't each time she does this. In addition, if she is quiet, give her a subtle ';reward';, i.e. cook dinner, buy her a treat.





You're right, cultural differences can matter sometimes.
wow ur roommate is really weird. Just tell her to stop. Remind her everytime. And when she does it again, have the guts to knock on the door and shout at her to keep her voice low.
knock her head and make she wake up from her bad habits!!beat him till she understand what is the meaning of noisy!! or you shout from your washroom everyday to let her taste what she doing to you,everytime!!
I feel for you. I've been there, and it can make your life hellish.


I think you should talk to her again about these issues, as diplomatically as possible, and see if you can't get her to stop talking in the bathroom, and instead, talk in her own room. If it's between losing your sanity and trying to keep the peace with her, don't lose sleep over it. You may have to take a more agressive approach with her because it doesn't seem to be sinking in. Be a broken record and just keep repeating yourself whenever she does these things. Do what Ronin said and carpet dude.
if telling her works for a few days then I would just keep telling her that every time she does it until its knocked into her head.
I would confront her when she is doing it. Just walk right in on her and say ';excuse me but I'm trying to sleep and I've asked you to be considerate before';...and just keep on doing it every time she does....embarrass her in front of whomever she's talking to...if that doesn't work maybe you should find a new roommate or move out?? Roommates suck!
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