Problem with a mother? (needing some advice)?

my mother always discouraging me for my ambitions and for anything that i wan to do someday! (including my plans, dreams, ambition) she always want me to follow everything she says. i tried to talked to her several times but we always arrived into an argument that makes me tired of pleasing her! would you solve this problem for me?Problem with a mother? (needing some advice)?
Don't loose sight of what you want to become. You may find that as time goes by your ideas of what you wanted will change. When I was in college almost everyone changed their major twice! I would say don't argue about it. Soon you will be old enough that your mom will have little say anyway.Problem with a mother? (needing some advice)?
When you age, have children or get married -- you lose a lot of the optimism and happiness you had when you were younger and carefree. Life is hard and you NEED to be practical to survive. What happens is that some people forget that practical is also negative. Practical doesn't account for hope or possibility. Doing what's ';practical'; or best doesn't allow growth or follow dreams. Practical means settling for less sometimes.





Maybe your mom needs to see something besides the negativity of practicality and should be shown the possibility of reaching for the stars.
I am going to assume you are in your middle teens and my answer is based on that - your mom is probably doin the best she knows how. You should follow your dreams and be the person YOU want to be but keep in mind in stead of arguments talk...let your mom you know that you are aware that she believes she has your best interest in mind and take it into consideration and then let her know why you feel the way you do about the things you want...assure her that you are taking in all she teaches you and that you appriciate her for her INFLUENCE. Dont be disrespectful or argue it doesnt do any good for anyone. Live your life...it is your to live
How old are you. The best advice that I could give you is to tell you that you are living for yourself and not your mother. I know that you love her and want to please her but you have but this is your life not hers. Next time don't argue with her. Just tell her what you want to do and why and maybe prove her wrong someday.
sometime mothers don't know they are doing wrong in not supporting there kids but keep your dreams and everything you want with hope some people are more hard headed then others . i know i have a 15yr and sometime i don't agree with her but i try to understand her and support her . maybe she dose it cuz she whats the best for and doesn't wat yo to be just like her she what you to be better then her. good luck !!!!!
dont please her. if you want to do something its up to you to do it.. if she wont talk to you and just keeps fighting with you dont talk to her, why waste your breath on something you know is going to fail.. you enjoy and do whatever you want to do. maybe she just wants you to do what she wanted to do when she was your age. but you need to remember you are too diffrent people and what she wants and what you want are to diffrent things. she cant see that now, but hopefully you can.. soon you can move out, live your own life. think in 5/10 years. where do you wanna be. doing and living what you wanted to do.. or doing and living what SHE wanted to do.. in the end you will re-pay yourself.. i really hope i helped