Help!!! I need an advice? I have a big problem?

First of all Sorry for posting on psychology


I just get better answers here then on singles and dating





The problem is I think I like this girl鈥?br>

And when I get my heart set on a girl, it鈥檚 got to be her and only her. And it鈥檚 a big problem.





I just got out of getting over from a rejection. From an ex-female-friend. It was my first rejection and it was only the third time I asked a girl out. In my life. Lame. Yes. (I am 22)





I didn鈥檛 even talked to her, every time I want to I just can鈥檛. She is one year under me in college.


Every time I see her I feel like I'm walking on air.


Then I think to my self a beautiful girl like her would not like an ugly guy like me. And don鈥檛 take my word for it; you can see my pic on MySpace:


myspace.com/daglas69





I just don鈥檛 want to give her a wrong impression.


That I am the kind who rushes in.


I don鈥檛 know what can I say to her and leave a good impression. I don鈥檛 know what to do.


I can鈥檛 get help from none of my friends; they will probably say why do I like her and think she is ugly or some thing. Cause she got a big nose.


I need to do some thing. Fast.


Before I go nuts.Help!!! I need an advice? I have a big problem?
well you can always just talk to her about it.. Before I hooked up with my fiance he thought i was WAY out of his league i am not trying to sound conceited or anything but he said i was way to cute for him and thought that i would never give him a chance.. he finally got the balls to talk to me and then he asked me out and of course i said yes i loved his personality and fell in love with that plus he is somewhat good looking as well..i didn't think that b4 though i didn't think i would have ended up with him but now i only have eyes for him. but anyways i think you should talk to her and well if she says no then you tried..oh and with my fiance he asked me out a couple of time b4 i said yes..so maybe you can ask her out a couple of times and see how that goes





oh also try and dress up nice... :)Help!!! I need an advice? I have a big problem?
I gave you a website in your ';hating yourself'; question, did you even glance at it?





There's not just one thing, you need a lot of help over a long period of time. But beleive in yourself, because no one else will if you don't. Now get proactive, check the website, and take a step forward.
Just do it! It's cliche and it's trademarked but it's still good advice. The worst thing that could happen is she'll say no, you'll be sad then a few weeks later you'll meet girl number 4. Life is too short to get caught up in fear. You have to go for it or you'll never know what could have been. Who knows, she might feel the same exact way about you. Ask her. What do you have to lose?
If you think you are ugly and that girls will never go out with you, then they will and they won't.





I think before you worry about going out with a girl, you should do some work on your self esteem and self worth. Girls are not going to be interested in going out with someone who doesn't even like himself.
If you are afraid to talk to her, why don't you become her secret admirer, that way you can say the things that you want to say to her just in secret, after awhile you can reveal yourself to her.