Sunday, August 22, 2010

PLEASE HELP WITH ADVICE!! I had a huge problem today with family and we all almost ended up dead because of it?

Here's the deal me and my sister spent the day running around like crazy to get some $$ and fix some problems and thankfully the 10 hours of running from place to place on an empty stomache paid of and we not only were able to take care of the bills but had lots of $$ left over and we decided to pick up her husband and go out and eat.





Now he was in a good mood when he got into the car but all the sudden he started calling her names and screaming (nobody knows why) it got so bad we almost crashed the car cause he was in the back and screaming and it caused us to move into oncomming traffic (he a very large man and very intimidating although until this day I had only seen him calm) now this caused my sister to freak out and he got worse and I tried talking to him to calm him down (Ive never done anything but be there for him I got him work and made a huge possitive impact in his life) anyways he spent the day flat out ignoring me for NO REASON I didnt loose it or anything (mind you I felt like hitting him for the first time ever) I tried reasonable talking (while he ignored me) and was saying you know I have never done anything but help you and take your side and it's not fair that your not even giving me the restpect to look at me in the face. Anyways I ask to be dropped off at home, but Im pissed he's acting like that and I'm beyong offended, hurt and enraged that he's gonna pull a scene like that almost get us all killed and then he throws a fit and sits there ignoring me..... How do I approach it? do I leave him and see if he appologizes and ignore him till then, or do I call tomorrow and talk?PLEASE HELP WITH ADVICE!! I had a huge problem today with family and we all almost ended up dead because of it?
Sounds like he's bipolar.PLEASE HELP WITH ADVICE!! I had a huge problem today with family and we all almost ended up dead because of it?
tell you sister to get him checked for diabetis. my dad has that and gets crabby out of nowhere.





you should call him and tell him that you are sorry for upsetting him (even tho none of this was your fault he somehow feels that u did somthing..)





talk to your sister if he isnt diabetic he sounds like he could have some anger probs or b abusive, make sure that she is alright
Call him and talk like in a few days just to see if he is alright and to resolve this problem. Until then just forget about it.

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