Please give me some advice on my complicated guy problem?

Ok, this is gonna be quite long but i'll try to explain it as simply as possible:





I fell head over heels for this dude in my year. Thing is, he's a shy guy and doesn't speak to girls - or to anyone really. Don't ask me why I fell for him so suddenly, I just did, I can't pinpoint what it is about him that I love so much! I sit behind him in German and just stare at the back of his head.





I had his number as we were doing this project together and decided to text him. He texted back and we had this loooong conversation about really random things. I told him not to tell anyone, espesh any of his friends that we had been texting. Turns out that he did and I sent him a very long and angry text pointing out how angry I was - I know I shouldn't have but I was really upset and we never speak or have spoken in class. He knew I was upset when his friend told him that I knew and tried to avoid me for a bit but other than that we've never really spoken.





I ended up apologising to him for getting so upset and as I'd expected, his reply was ';Ok';. We've stopped texting but I can't stop thinking about him, it's really annoying. I want to dislike him but I can't, people laugh at me me cos I find him attractive.


I kind of thought that he liked me cos for a brief period, every time he saw me he'd smile, which for him is rare as he always walks around with a cloud over his head and speaks as if he's constantly depressed.


My self-confidence is pretty low and I'm really paranoid - I'm thinking that there's no way that he would have liked me anyway and that he does like some other girl.





My friend says that if I want to, I should go for it and make the first move - which is what I was trying to do at the beginning but I know that I've totally ruined my chances of it ever happening. And we never speak as there's nothing to say, and he has really loud and brash friends and I would never consider speaking to him in front of them, I'm actually pretty shy as well.


I know people say that two shys are a bad combination but I'm willing to sweep that factor aside for now and find out for myself.





Please give me SOME...ANY advice. Should I talk to him? When? What about? How do I get over this guy who has brought up these wierd feelings (I've had crushes before, but never so that I felt that I had to make a move)? AAARGH! Please help :'(Please give me some advice on my complicated guy problem?
I think you need to talk to him right away. Maybe start it off with a txt. Be like ';Hey what's up? I haven't talked to you in forever!'; Just try to keep the conversation going. Then at school, sit with him and hid friends at lunch. This will let him know that you are still interested in him. Just flirt like crazy and be yourself! Hope I helped! Good luck dear and God bless!





~kori