Can sum1 give me advice on a bff/bf problem?! i need help. =[?

my bff *derek* is going out wit my otha bff *melisa*. i really like *derek*. but neither of them kno. hes soo sweet. and i kno it sounds horrible but i do NOT plan to take him away from her! so if your gona say s* dont even bother commenting. anyways, ther has been these rumors about how im all over derek and dat me and him like each other. idk if he likes me, but it isnt tru. i havent told any1 i like him, and now *melisa'; is mad at me! i dnt kno wat to do! should i stop talking to him? and she's is always believing all these rumors instead of me! wich gets me mad! i need help guys. plz any advice will help. =]. thnx.


p.s these are not their real names. i didnt wna give out personal info. =]. sry if its too long.





Can sum1 give me advice on a bff/bf problem?! i need help. =[?
u should hold back and stuff, same thing w/ me but not really, this guy asked me out, i said no, then i found out later that my bff like him, and then that got around and so yeah....


well, i think u should wait, and still talk to him, and if he asks, be open and if he says ';hey, i heard u liked me... whats that about?';


you could say either ';oh, just a rumor, lol, i hate gossip'; or ';well i do, or did, but now ur going out w/ melissa, but its okay, i dont want this to ruin our friendship'; but only more smooth lol, or say ';oh, oh, derek, i do! and dump melissa and lets go out!!!';


personally i like #2 or #1


anyway, u should solve things w/ melissa! why the f*ck is she mad at u?!! u should straight up tell her and if she starts to be all 'well, gosh' then, like stay calm and say 'i know, but idk why ur mad'; and stay calm! good luck!Can sum1 give me advice on a bff/bf problem?! i need help. =[?
I think you should back off. Someone has been reading your body language or something towards derek and so you must be doing something wrong. Don't jeopardize your bf's relationship even unintentionally.
BE SERIOUS , YOU GIRLS SHOULD BOTH DUMP HIM AND FIND BETTER.... THAT IS SICK , YOU ARE BRIGHT AND SMART , FIND BETTER.......
ok....umm...ur friendship shouldnt b split up ova a boy, boys come and go....but if he is that special 2 u then u need to sit both of them down and resolve it.