So there is this Senior girl that I got to know better the last semester of this highschool year, im a freshman so i'll still be here, but she's leaving. I had feelings for her, more then friendship, and i told her, and she didnt want to have a relationship, and i understand her, but know i feel i've drifted farther away from her, and I really miss her, she made me feel... Its really hard to explain actually, but she made me feel right.
We did duets together, golfed, and tons of things before i told her how i felt, but now she hardly talks to me really, and the girl i knew was really nice, so i dont think shes trying to be mean.
I'll still be seeing her at least once a month this summer, but I wanna find out how she feels about our friendship anymore, and how much she means to me, but i dont know if i should wait until she leaves for college, or if i should do it now. I've told her kind of a couple times before, but not really extensively.
Can someone please help? She really means a lot to me, and I dont want to loose her, I'm confused...!Need help/advice on a big friend problem?
The best thing is to let her go, even if you had a fling over the summer, It would not last. She is going college, where she will change, meet new friends. She will be growing up and you will not relate as well as you have in the past. You are both entering new phases in you life, her in college and in growing up in high school. Its time for you both to grow with out each other.Need help/advice on a big friend problem?
confront her and tell her that even though u have 4eelings 4 her u still want 2 carry on ur friendship and ur ok w/ her not responding back 2 the same 4eelings that u have. tell her that ur friendship is really meaningful 2 u and u dont want 2 lose her like that
i think you shouldnt wait till she goes off to collage
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