Sunday, August 22, 2010

Help i need your advice i got a family problem?

I dropped out of 9th grade in hs due to depression. I'm now 23, and successful i own my business, and bought my own house, also own a lamborghini.





The problem is i got a auntie (46) who tells me: ';my daughters are going to college'; or ';dumbass go get your g.e.d';. Then at the end of the day she says ';Please let me borrow $1000';. Then she keeps saying he thinks he's cool since he lives the ';high life';. When i clearly don't i just get hated on by so many people.





What should i do about all this? isn't she hating as well?Help i need your advice i got a family problem?
People want what they can't have. Since you have a lot of money and a great car, people will act badly because being able to afford a lot of luxury is still a bit of taboo these days (except in the hollywood scene.)





I don't know if you really show your wealth. I mean, you can be rich or you can be rich and be snobby about it. Try to be a bit more modest when you're dealing with people like her. Don't bring the lamborghini on her doorstep, but park it nearby but out of sight. And if she asks for money, be blunt: ';Funny how you ask that when a while ago you said you don't like me.'; Don't be the financial Cash Cow. You might never have finished high school but you made something of your life! If she brings up her college girls again, tell her you'll want to hear of them again when they've become as successful as you.Help i need your advice i got a family problem?
Dude, did you work hard to please these people or your self. Do what you love and don't worry about them. Everyone has there own way. If you really feel obligated to let her borrow that money sit down with her and ask her what she needs it for. How is she going to pay it back. Ask her what she thinks of you personally and why. If she gives any reason to believe that she won't pay it back. Don't let her have it. Then unless you absolutely feel it necessary to loan her money; agree to get a contract and have her pay the lawyer fee as interest.


Good Luck Mate
Next time she tells you to get you g.e.d. tell her you are ok with what you have. and obviously you are pretty successful so leave you alone. I realize that shes family and you need to be as polite as possible but you also need to tell her to back off. Hope this helps
She sounds strange! Just ignore her, shes being pathetic, you know whats right, you're very successful, well done (:
Simply ignore her

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