Monday, August 23, 2010

I need a help of psychiatric doctor, plz advice me properly about my problem.?

i need ur treatment of my problem, if i get it really, i will be very happy and i m lucky person.





my age 28, now i m doing research work in a india's topmost institute. staying in hostel. the problem is created by my juniors(BTech students).


one of the neighbor junior is a chain smoker. he used the cigarette and threw outside of the room. everyday his room and my room(near to his room) outside consists of lot of cigarette pieces and dusty. i didnt like cigarette smell. and i like to clean the atmosphere. whenever he put the pieces, immdtly i got tense and starting days i didnt tell anything to those students. after a long time i advised to a neighbor student that dont take cigarette and if u did, plz make a dust bin inside ur room and keep it their the dust and pieces with friendly manner. that time he told ';ok sir';. only one day he didnt put any pieces outside. that day i was happy. but after the next day again he was starting. now it is very bad condition. he intentionally threw the pieces very near to my room than the previous one. sometimes, it is in my correct centre of varanda outside the room. that time i got more tensed and didnt express the tense and didnt tell anything to that students. bcoz i dot want ineterfere there rights. i wont tell to warden also. bcoz if i tell the warden will take some steps or punishments. but there after sometimes it will amke major problms from those students. it has occured continously more than one month. every day i got tension and i couldnt concentrate my study and resaerch. i have lot of works. if i get tense immdtly i got head ache also.





one day, i got more tense and without any hesitation, i complained to warden. i think he came and shouted the student when i was not there. therefater i got little bit solution and there is no disturbance. i cared more about my research. that days i was very happy. after one weak again he and his friends started. this time they didnt threw the cigarette pieces. insteead, they used ice cream cup, spoon, other news papers and some unwanted things. this time i dont want to complaint to warden. again i m getting tension and i couldnt concentaret my work.





some times i m feeling that why i m considering those things very much? i m telling myself, leave it, they are juniors, they are enjoying, y u r restricting they.? but most of the times i got tensed. plz advice me. what i have to do for this one, hw can i concentrate my research work? bcoz my works are very important. if i didnt do the work properly, that also gave pressure to me. what i do? hw can i reduce my tension? i dont know, i m a psycho or that students are psycho? sometimes i got tensed and thinking that i should beat they. if i do again it is a major problem. plz advice me properly.


thank u doctor.


I need a help of psychiatric doctor, plz advice me properly about my problem.?
You retaliate too strongly! Try to be friendly with them instead of questioning . Once you make them feel that you are not their enemy, they may not try to disturb you. Preconceived notion about anything need not be correct. You seem to have adjustment problem. Each individual is different from the other and the predilictions may also be different. Therefore be tolerant. Help them if you can and be in their good books. Perhaps they will llike youI need a help of psychiatric doctor, plz advice me properly about my problem.?
They lack in courtesy and are completely careless and hence i think it`s their problem. First tell them politely and then complain to the warden again

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