Please give me good advice in regards to this problem?

please give me advice, my problem is that my friend judges people too much on their status. Whenever i start to like a guy, she always tells me ';look at what he wears.. eww no dress sense'; and ';can he afford those things'; or ';look at his car';. I mean i dont know what to do now, even i have started to think like that and i FEEL SO BAD! I dont know why she does that? Even though she is not perfect looking herself or is perfect herself. I mean is it NORMAL to think like that? Does everyone think like that time to time about someone? I dont know how to take this out of my head? PLS HELP ME. I mean would i ever be happy and satisfied with my life if i always think like that? Is whole negative thinking is making me more sad.





Thank you. Please give me good advice in regards to this problem?
Well what your friend is looking at, is the materialistic value of everyone. How everyone can be judged in terms of money. But most people fail to understand that love and understanding is more important than money.





Without love and understanding, even money can't stand a chance. Money can be earned, love and understanding cannot.





He may not be rich, and you are not there entirally for expenditure or spending only. But with you both contributing, wealth can be created.





God created people with distintive features and qualities. If u think that such and such people are worth this love and understanding, u can give it a shot. Just remember, don't let people use u.





Suggest your friend to write a book, just to get more readers and followers, afterall she has only one as of now. LOL.





Please give me good advice in regards to this problem?
thats typical you have one of those friends who rarely ever get a man and they steer you in the way they want you to go shes probaly more than likely going to make you lose out in a relationship and no thats not normal to think like that
It seems your friend is a jealous person, she doesn't want you to meet anyone. You just be yourself, and like whoever you want to like.. Material things are not important, its the person that is important..
don't lestin to here.....just move ahead with a new boy-firend...have fun in your life
No matter what, if you are interested in a guy that may wear weird clothes according to her so what? That guy might be the most fun and interesting guy you've ever met. Meeting different people who may seem different or strange sometimes turns out to be the coolest.





In a nutshell, your friend has a lot of insecurities. Usually people who talk down about other people is because it helps them feel better about themselves, because THEY feel lousy. Don't let her lead you into that way of negative behavior. If she continues being that way, chances are she will end up alone, because she will reject a lot of people, mostly because she would be afraid of getting rejected.


Don't be one of those negative stuck up people, and if she starts bringing you down cut the conversations short with her...go out have fun, enjoy life, and maybe she will follow your lead!





P.S. The guys I knew in High School that were different or maybe a little strange...quite a few turned out to be gorgeous and successful men.
Hi,


yes I think first of all you need to put a stop to her, you don't need to be around negative people if your life is a drama aredy , you know. Probably this guy is going to make you happy, and make your life so peaceful and fun. We can't judge people only god can. Anyways plz don't let your ';friend'; ruin your love life or your life period. Belive me I know by experience because I was like that at one time. My life was so dull and sad . Belive me it's not worth it. Go ahead. If your friend is really your friend she's going to understand. Remember don't let nobody lead your life but you.Especially don't let nobody tell you what's good for you. Don't stay with the question of ';What if I should of ?'; go ahead life is only one, have fun and love don't let nobody stop you Good luck