PLZ HELP!! I'M NEVER GOING TO SEE THIS GIRL AGAIN!! Friendship problem with girl (girls advice please)?

I'm in grade 12 now and I'm very confused. A year and a half ago, I had a conflict with a girl, (which was totally my fault) who was my friend, and I told her I didn't ever want to talk to her, and she said the same to me. She was a really nice person, and the fight was not her fault at all. I said a lot of mean things to her, which is what actually instigated her to say mean things to me. I could tell she was really hurt, one because she never thought I could have said those things to her, and 2, she was hurt because of the actual things I said.


So now we haven't talked for about a year and a half but it's all my fault. She used to treat me like her brother and I threw that all away. Now I wanted to let her know I'm sorry because soon we're going to leave highschool and probably never see eachother ever again.But the problem is that I'm really shy and embarrased to say sorry. So I was wondering is there a way where I can ';indirectly'; say I'm sorry so that everything can go back to normal. Please help!! Oh and if there is no ';indirect'; way, I guess I'm going to have to say sorry ';directly'; but can you tell me when I could say sorry to her and how?PLZ HELP!! I'M NEVER GOING TO SEE THIS GIRL AGAIN!! Friendship problem with girl (girls advice please)?
It really sounds like you feel sincerely sorry for the argument you had with her...apologies are always best when said face to face especially in your case. How would she know if you were being sincere if she couldn't look at your face? You need to ask her if she's willing to meet with you for coffee or lunch so you can talk. If she says no, then at least you know you tried and you can just let her know that you respect her decision. Don't push it on her and don't force it either. Remember everything happens for a reason and in the end the people that love you will stand by you no matter what. Enjoy the rest of your senior year, it goes by fast!PLZ HELP!! I'M NEVER GOING TO SEE THIS GIRL AGAIN!! Friendship problem with girl (girls advice please)?
As a girl who has been here, it is never too late to say sorry. If you cant look her in the eyes and say sorry, write it in a letter. There is no wrong way to apologize if you are sincere. Dont use email or texting, use a note- written not typed, or your mouth. If you hurt her bad she may still feel anger towards you, but at least you can try.
screw being indirect. You screwed up, now man up to it and directly tell her that you screwed up and that you are really sorry.





It will most likely never go back to the way things were though, but if you don't say you are sorry now, you'll regret it for the rest of your life. I gaurentee it.
ok the first thing you need to do is that STOP BEING MEAN TO HER and she wont be mean to you. then you say sorry . after that try to ask her out and dude be your self then you guys can be more then just friends.





PS: you don't have to do what i say and its cool if you '; thumbs down '; me.
First of all things will probably never go back to the way they were, they could just get worse.


but if you really want to make things better say that your sorry and give her reasons why you are sorry, apologize for every mistake you make. And flowers wouldn't hurt either!
well you definitely screwed up. so the indirect way to apoligize is not gonna work. yu should call her and ask to meet or take her out to lunch one the weekend. and apoligize. even though yu made a mistake and things wont be the same yu will atleast be able to say yu tried.
text her and aploigize to her and tell her how wrong you were and how you miss her company, but not in a relationship way, but as a best friend
Okey and you waited how long to tell her that your sorry damn, she is going to be upset but its cool even though your a little late for your forgiveness she would forgive you .. if she new how much you are sorry for and means it ... just get her alone in high school or what ever by her self or jump into her and tell her that could we speak, and maybies you could tell her how you really feel and how much you feel bad about the situation that happened a year ago.. and that you wanted a long year to say sorry cause WHYY .. ??? explain it to her.. so that she could understand how sorry you are and yeah i guess it would work if she was THAT NICE lol ... yeah well good luck...





P.S ask her if you guys could keep in contact after making things pretty OKEY with her.. yeah xxxxxx all the best





Peace
You got yourself in a pickle there. Get her flowers and a stuffed animal. Put a note on it saying that you are sorry and take it to her house and talk to her about it. And just say '; I'm sorry about the fight we had it wasn't your fault it was all my fault. Just to prove that I'm sorry I got you something. Then just give the stuff to her.';
If you try and say sorry indirectly, she will just think you're even more of a jerk, so just face it and say sorry. Ask her to meet you at a quite private place like a caf茅 where you won't know anyone there, but don't ask her to somewhere too private like your house because she will feel uncomfortable and probably just say no.





Then, just bite the bullet and say you're really, really sorry. Tell her that you know exactly what you've done wrong, and don't try and shift the blame (by saying ';I know I was mean but so were you...';) because she will hate you for it. Then tell her how much she means to you and how much you want her to be your friend again, but you understand that she was really hurt by what you did and you feel awful. DO NOT criticise anything she did, or try and make what you did sound ok, even if you think that, because you will just lose your chance to apologise. Tell her you really miss her and you want her friendship back.





Good luck :)!