Ex boyfriend problem please help i need advice?

me and my ex was together for almost 2 years and been seperated for 5 months we been talking as friends and well he tell me he love and i tell him i love him to but he wants to achive his dream as a reggaeton rapper and he is good he is 17 and he said he don't want a gurl a this point and i agree with him i love him so much and he knows well tomorrow he leaving to D.R for 3 weeks and i wanting to see him b4 he leaves and he said no . he tol dme b4 that he don't know how he would react if he see me i think he is scared he told me that he miss me and that now his life been sort of weird , i love him and i don't know what to do i want to see him as his friend and thatz it to tell him goodbye i haven't seen him since feb-15 and i want to see him he tells me he miss me and tells me i love u out of the blue and i know that he does love me i feel it we talk on the phone everyday but i want to see him b4 he leave tomorrow what should i do i understand that he don't want a gurl and i accept itEx boyfriend problem please help i need advice?
it is too long to even read it ...I just need the point sorryEx boyfriend problem please help i need advice?
f him. it's ova. he don't want you like that no more. he thinks he's gonna get lotsa p@ssy being a rappa.
i would just show up with gift and say good bye
I stopped reading... too long... maybe he doesn't want anyone getting in the way of his dream... and once he gets to his goal he will start thinking about a girl... maybe he is just trying to get his priorities straight.
He isnt being quite honest with you. Start being honest with yourself and face all that you plan is pure fantasy. He keeping you on hold in case of an emergency ie he all alone one day but not right now. Move on
i dont understand, your not speaking clearly.
Respect his wishes.
Sorry, but a 17 yr old might not know what he wants, but trust me in this girl friend, if he says he don't want you, he doesn't. It took me years of listening to men to know when they say something, they mean it. What he might be saying is that he misses you physically, or just to talk to, but do you want that sort of treatment?


Most girls thing they can twist answers men give them so they can still see the end they want to see. But while you wait and worry over him, many other potential boyfriends slip by you. They might actually respect you and give to you what you need.


So why are you stuck on this wierd dude?


Let me ask a few questions to drive this home. You mentioned you speak to him every day. Do you call him? If he calls, do you waste you time waiting for the phone to ring?


I would say it is hard for a person who loves you to not see you since Feb. 15, don't you think? For four months?!
Honey, he's got a girl and it ain't you.


He's just keeping you handy for an extra or in case the new one doesn't work out.


Get yourself a life and find someone who can care about you and not just keep you ';hangin on'; Don't you deserve better?


Grow up.


And good luck.
YOU NEED TO GO AHEAD AND MOVE ON AND FIND SOMEBODY ELSE BECAUSE HE MIGHT CHEAT ON YOU AND YOU ARE GONNA BE HURT.
why do u confuse ur life this much?both u and ur bf have maturity i think.pls b cool if he loves u he will come to u from anywhere inthe world.
I suggest you put your head in school because you have absolutely no skills, by evidence of your post, that you could ever earn a living on your own. You don't need to be worrying about a boyfriend. You need to get some English classes as a second language or pay attention in school now!





That boy needs to do what whatever it is he does; you need to do whatever it is you need to do to be an independent, self-reliant, educated, confident young woman when you get out of school.





CONCENTRATE ON SCHOOL.
it doesnt sound like you have even broken up just playin around I say cut him loose, cry alot and get over it and move on, dont look back or you will just repeat mistakes. move forward it only hurts for a while.