A guys biggest problem with dating. I need advice from the ladies?

If I'm single and I want to go do something I can call around to 7 of my friends and only 1 has to be able to go for me to have a good time. If im dependent on only 1 person or feel obligated to spend time with and sacrafice for, I don't do nearly as much. I get bored, out of shape and frustrated.


For example,


1. I've been wanting to go back home to visit for a weekend and my girlfriend wants to go. However, we never both have the days off. I'v been pushing it off for months now waiting for her to be able to go.


2. I was really into the climbing gym before I met her and had all these goals I was working toward. She doesn't like to go. I choose not to climb to spend time with her.





I can't stand drama which could come from me or her. I care about big issues like wars %26amp; how to change the world, not little personal drama. The longer I date the less I want to get married. Im an adventurer and I need to get out and explore. I feel limited in nearly every relationship. Thats my probA guys biggest problem with dating. I need advice from the ladies?
Sounds to me like you haven't met the right girl yet. Yes a relationship is about making sacrifies and compromising. However, you should not have to give up who you are in order to be with her. You should be able to have her in your life and find things in common that you both enjoy and still have some time to do stuff on your own.A guys biggest problem with dating. I need advice from the ladies?
Thats how she met you so she should except what you do for hobbies and not try to control you cause that will only get worse.(AND I MEAN IT!!!) Also she should never come between you and your family I would tell her to deal with it.
Sounds like you are in a tough spot....You need to find someone who, if they don't enjoy the same activities at least respects the fact that you do enjoy them...sounds like your g/f needs to get a few hobbies of her own. When my husband and I first started dating, he tried to stop doing things he enjoyed to spend time with me...i couldn't stand it. We really don't have that much in common, except maybe our attitudes and outlook on things...but as far as ';hobbies'; go...I can't think of even one. Just because you are with someone doesn't mean you have to be stuck up each others *** all the time.