Monday, August 23, 2010

I dont Know if me ';going off'; quickly is a problem. Help any one with advice!!!?

With my last girlfriend i kind of ';Blew my loud'; rather quckily. i feel that im not good at the sex thing because i dont last too long. the worst thing is, i have good days and bad days. ill last and then other days i wont (Wont seems to happen more), i just need to know if their is a way to last longer or just be better during the act.


Any advise is worth listening toI dont Know if me ';going off'; quickly is a problem. Help any one with advice!!!?
Well, first off..You might not need to last as long as you're thinking you need to. 15-20 minutes is really plenty! As long as the girl is getting hers, it doesn't matter how long you last.


Now with that said, if your going WAY too quick, have you tried wearing a condom? Condoms can slightly reduce sensitivity.


Another idea is, try to control what your thinking about. Detach your mind, but still focus on pleasing your partner. Or maybe, start off with orally getting her off (or getting her REALLY worked up) before you even penetrate.


Try to have sex or masturbate more often.


If this becomes a persistent problem, see your doctor. It might be something you can work through with some therapy. They're professionals, don't be embarrassed.


Just relax! Thinking about it too much can't be making things any better. The fact that you're concerned means right off that you're obviously not a selfish lover. That's a good trait to carry. Good Luck :-)I dont Know if me ';going off'; quickly is a problem. Help any one with advice!!!?
Controlling yourself comes with maturity.
First dont try any of those drugs on tv or the net or anything they dont work and can be harmful to your health. Also just make sure you please her before you even think about pleasing yourself. Try oral or using your hands.
Two things to try, first spank the monkey about 2 hours b4 you know u r going to see her. Also just take your time with her and make it all about her. After that she won't care how long u lasted.
im a female i really dont know wat to say rather than pratice an they say a guy can hold it in so i guess try that best thing i can come up with bein a female
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