Any advice for the most embarrasing problem resulting from a Nair nightmare & combined with rough sex?

Ok, here's the deal- Last week, I was using Nair in my bikini area and moved my leg while it was on which resulted in the Nair spreading and and taking hair off that I hadn't intended. In a moment of pure stupidity, I decided that I would Nair my entire area to remove the hair. EVERYWHERE down there (entire vagina and all pubic hair. If that wasn't bad enough, I think it caused some sort of reaction because it was on the sensitive areas on my inner lips, etc and irritated my skin very badly! Fast forward 2 days....





My boyfriend and I had very rough sex and I think that it may have caused those already sensitive areas to be more irritated (we also used some lube that didn't help). This was Thursday night. I was very sore the next day and since have gotten worse. I have developed several (what I think are) ingrown hairs in my pubic area which are now red %26amp; swollen. I have hemhroids (sp) inside my butthole, which I am treating with Prep H. I think we may have scraped or scratched the skin near my clitoris, which is now also red and painful. Now I also have bumps in the area right above my vaginal hole that sort of feel like swollen glands.





Saturday I got my period, which is very heavy and not making the situation better.





I just had my yearly exam and was tested and examined for STD's (all negative) and am in a monogomous relationship. I am almost positive that its not anything sexually transmitted. I am so embarrassed by this and know that I was dumb, so please don't respond by telling me this when I already know. I seriously do not want to go to the doctor and I don't know what to do.





I am in a horrible situation. It hurts to walk and my underwear/clothing seems to irritate the pubic area worse. If you can stop laughing at me long enough to help and give me sound medical advice, I would greatly appreciate it. Thank you.





PS. I learned my lesson and will never use Nair %26amp; I am contemplating never having sex again. In my defense, my boyfriend is 9 years younger than I am and I was blinded by how good the sex is:) I have to have a little sense of humor about this, because I think if I stop laughing at myself I might start crying!Any advice for the most embarrasing problem resulting from a Nair nightmare %26amp; combined with rough sex?
The only thing you can do now is allow it heal. When Nair gets on you inner lips, it causes soreness and in your situation when irritated it becomes swollen. Use a mild soap (lever 2000, Dove) to help with the pain. The use of Nair causes hair blockage and your hairs grow back even thicker than before. this causes the ingrown hair. When you are feeling better get your BF to get some tweezers and pick the hairs. It may be a bit painful but if not the ingrown hairs will become very swollen and sore. If you don't like waxing you may want to try shaving with Thermasilk shaving cream or even baby shampoo. this prevents razor bumps and leaves the are smooth and soft. Hope this helps.Any advice for the most embarrasing problem resulting from a Nair nightmare %26amp; combined with rough sex?
Sounds very uncomfortable, And you may have developed a secondary infection. This treatment will speed up the healing.





Yeast Infection: Douche morning and evening with a two quart hot water bottle/douche/enema bag. Filling it with as hot of water as you can tolerate but not so hot that it burns you. This is very effective at killing yeast as it summons your own white blood cells to the area of infection and they do a splendid job of killing the infection. One or two days treatment is normally required to get over most yeast infections.





God bless you and I expect to hear that you are doing better soon.
the best advice i can give u is to stay away from sex for now and let the situation calm down by not letting ur area get more irritated than it already is. make sure u do a good clease every chance u get and stay away from tight undies. it should heal itself in no time but make sure it doesnt have direct contact with any surface such as jeans and such, wear sweats and loose clothes til it doesnt feel as much painful. good luck hun :P
Don't be embarrassed ! It is probably not a medical emergency, but you should be concerned by the irritation, the pain ... and the bleeding (preparation H ?). You could have a yeast or bacterial infection or ...?





Don't improvise your treatment, don't keep suffering, just get yourself to the doctor. They will not judge you (they should NOT). Don't be scared and don't worry about talking openly with your doctor ... you should also do so with your boyfriend. Sex=when your body will have healed !





Good luck and protect your body :-)

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