I need advice with a unique relationship problem?

My boyfriend hates my exboyfriend and thinks I don't love him enough if I visit my ex. The thing about my ex is that he is way older than me and I love him very much as a friend. He has a bunch of psychological issues and doesn't trust anyone. So like on Christmas, I was his only visitor. He is also getting radiation treatment for cancer, needs a kidney transplant, and has heart heart disease. My boyfriend flips out whenever I go see him and I used to take my boyfriend with me but his jealous attitude causes too much stress for everybody. Is my boyfriend justified in being upset with me for visiting my ex? If I barely visited my ex, wouldn't that be abandoning him in the last days of his life? He has no family and no other friends. What do I do?I need advice with a unique relationship problem?
heres the way i see it if your new bf is that worried about your ex he would just go with you ....that way he could see that there is nothing to be worried about...me if i do not think i can trust some one i am not going to be with them in the first place. and if your ex is in his last days and just wants to be friends theres nothing wrong with that but if he is after more than that i think you need to take a long look at everthingI need advice with a unique relationship problem?
keep visiting your ex , hes lonely and sick and you are probably the high light of his day. Your ex is really insecure and selfish , ask him to think about what it would be like if he was in your ex bfs shoes
keep the ex, lose the boyfriend.





i understand a man not wanting you to spend time time with an ex, but in this case , what is he afraid of ? you are going to have sex between the radiation treatment and the transplant ? your boyfriend is nuts, dump him.
explain to your bf that you and your ex bf are just friends. and thats it. u dont have feelings for him anymore and you just visit him because you are his only friend. he should understand that.
You tell your current bf to stfu. If he cannot handle it, he isn't for you.
omg your boyfriend is heartless!!!! this poor guy needs you. dump your boyfriend, he's a complete and total jerk. if he cannot see that this man is suffering and you are being the nice girl to help him, then he does not deserve you. dump him, he's a complete and total ***