SERIOUS ADVICE ONLY PLEASE: my relationship problem......?

Ok, so I have been seeing a girl and I really like her, but at times I don't know how I feel about her. I haven't seen her in awhile because I went away for the holidays and so did she (with family) and during that time I realized that I really do like her. Well we went out on a date the day after I got back and it went well. BUT we haven't done anything since and its been almost a month. She had surgery though, and it was at a place I couldn't go see her, she had to do physical therapy and all that. Well college started and we had a class together but we didn't know we had it together (kind of luck/chance kind of thing) but I think she dropped out of it so now we won't see eachother there. I'm going to try to take her out this weekend. What do you think I should do? Let her know how I feel? Because we started out just as friends, but during this time ';off'; I know I really do like her! Any help is appreciated.SERIOUS ADVICE ONLY PLEASE: my relationship problem......?
i say tell her you like her. if she doesn't like you it will hurt but at least you will know. some people go through life wondering did i have a shot with that one girl/guy. you wont know unless you ask her. if it's gods will you guys will be together:) good luck and god bless.SERIOUS ADVICE ONLY PLEASE: my relationship problem......?
the more time you spend together the more you will know if you ACTUALLY do like her


this hit and miss thing can break the relationship


if you REALLY like her.. go for it


start spending as much time as you can with her so that you two can begin a relationship





good luck
do small things like wishing her on the handphone ';have a nice day'; ';goodnight'; everyday will surely makes you stays on her mind.





and when you think the time is right, just tell her how you've been feeling about her and how you will really like the relationship to be more than just between friends....the rest is up to her to decide though..





good luck=)
people always want what they cant have, if you just happened to be in the same class maybe natures bringing you together. she might of dropped for another reason, or her surgery has her really insecure. id lay back for a while call see how shes doing but dont push the relationship just yet it sounds like bad timing
don't jump in over a few days off and think she feels the same. you need to learn about women. Women are emotional, they want to feel a reason to feel they want to be with someone. You have to give her that reason and it is not you want to be with her.





It could be you enjoyed being with her last month and you wished you could have come up and seen her in the hospital, but didn't know if it would be OK, so you didn't. I didn't notice you were in one of my class, but haven't seen you for a few_____. So how are you feeling after the surgery? stopping and let her talk, then ask a simple question, would you care to go to the park and walk and smell the flowers with me this weekend? ( this will set the mood for a women to feel wanted and feel good about you too). OK, your on your own now guy. it took me the first five years to understand to hear her, and not talk to her was a big key!
there is a quiz online, google ';is it lust or love';, it has answers
Tell her how you feel!


She will definately appreciate the honesty even if she doesn't feel the same way.
why havent u told er yet...go tel er..honestly in matters of the heart s always appreciated
express your true affair to her
take it one day at a time. let it flow...because of her surgery she may be in pain and dont really want to be out. let her get well and then talk to her about furthering your relationship...good luck