Help i got this problem and i need advice please?

I met her online we both liked e/o , the problem was i couldn't hang out with her since i was away for 3 months. Now i'm back and i promised i was going to hang out with her once i was back but the thing is i gained weight and i don't feel confident. It's now been a month since i been back. Now she has stop txtn me, and she has stop calling me ';babe';, and ';boo';........ And i asked her why haven't you txt me and she said ';because your doing you';.... Your living your life..... (She doesn't know i got confident issues), She thinks im out here partying, and i forgotten about her....





Then i said ';wtf, i thought we had something going on';.... Then she never txt back after that................ Should i just move, and what can i do about the confident part?Help i got this problem and i need advice please?
Well, the weight is yours to deal with. If you feel you need to be in better shape, do something about it.


...it's the ';wtf'; that has turned her off. How rude! What kind of way is that to speak/text to someone you are supposed to like?


Maybe try telling her the truth and see how that works out. If she knows you are feeling badly because of a little weight gain then she'll know you weren't ignoring her or out partying but afraid to let her know because she may distance herself from you. (that would be very superficial of her).


Try the truth. And, take good care of yourself- you deserve to feel good and look the way you want to again.Help i got this problem and i need advice please?
Move on if she was actually worth it she wouldn't have such a bad@ss attitute. Unless you want to tell her you were going through personal problems and that she needs to understand that and give u a chance.
you can't really have something going on by just texting. seriously **** the weight you should of asked her to hang out, and now you should move on because she probably has.
move on or tell her the truth and in the meantime let her know that you are doing everything possible to loose weight.


if she still cares for you she will understand.
well u should have told her first you didnt have confince and girls dont like it when u sya ';wtf i thought we had somthing going on'; thats your problem and text kinda means break up sorta so u gonna have to fix i guess
Tell her the truth and see what she says.
go see her. If she likes you for you, she'll still like you. no matter what you look like.
Just try to lose weight then aplogize is what i would do