Saturday, July 31, 2010

I need advice on this very twisted relationship problem?

Ok I told a friend that I liked this guy (Joe) she kept this a secret forever and still does she鈥檚 100% reliable. Then I decided to tell another friend because she was going to hook me up with someone else that I didn't like and telling her seemed to be the only way out. Well she told my crushes best friend that I liked Joe. Well the next day Joes best friend told his sister that I liked him not Joe and she told me. I told the friend that told that I liked Joe that his best friend is telling people that I liked him, so today she wrote him telling him that I liked Joe and not him.


Before school was out she asked if he read the note and he said he didn't, and I watched him and Joe drive away with a chick that likes Joe too, and now I'm scared of what鈥檚 going to happen. I want to change everything around cuz the girl that drove away with Joe and his friend is one of my friends and if she knows it will totally kill her. I was thinking when school starts on Monday I will tell Joe鈥檚 best friends sister to tell her brother that I don鈥檛 like him or Joe and every thing is a misunderstanding. Gosh, I don鈥檛 know what to do can anyone help me please!I need advice on this very twisted relationship problem?
You could get a job writing the scripts for Japanese manga.





Okay, I was going to leave the answer like that, but found it's not in me to be that cruel.





Your only hope is to come totally clean and tell Joe that you like him. Tell Joe's best friend that it was cruel of him to pretend that you liked him instead. Tell your friend (the one that rode off in the car) that you like Joe too. But it is obvious he likes her more since SHE was the one that got to leave with him in his car. You can even tell the best friend's sister that it was kind of her to try to help you.





And then tell them that you are leaving now, and you just hope you can live down the humiliation before you graduate. Then do it.





There is no sense lying. Lying only compounds the problem--makes it a whole lot worse. The truth may be embarrassing, but at least everyone will know the truth, and that's a good enough reason in it's own right.

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