I think i have a problem i need some advice!!!?

ok im gay i came about about two years ago right after i met my bestfriend and his been the only str8 guy i have really had a friendship with. after a year of being friends i have falled for him im in love with him. its been almost two months since we got our own place so now we live with each other. its been going really good but the more time i spent with him the more im falling for him but i cant help it. lately i been spending all my money on him to just to keep him happy i take care of some bills on my own cuz i know his parents dont really help him out with money like mine do. i some times pay when we go to movies or eat out. pretty much i treat him like a boyfriend. and i think now his taking advantage of that becuase its hard to say no to him and lately i been paying for everything. so wat should i do? i have tryed looking for a boyfriend but im not finding the right one. so should i tell him how i feel about him. or should i just keep it to my self and stop hanging out with him. i dont want him to stop talking to me and ask me to move out.. some one give me some advice plzI think i have a problem i need some advice!!!?
Number one -- stop thinking that he is taking advantage of you -- that is the first step to dooming any relationship whatsoever. It is also probably not true. You have made a series of rational and kind decisions to take care of some things, don't cheapen those decisions and yourself by now acting like a creep and expecting something back for them. You made them freely, accept the consequences.





Number two -- if you are close and he knows you are gay -- tell him you are worried that you may be falling for him. Have REAL communication, not the stilted bull that most Americans call communication, REAL communication, where you BOTH share your feelings and do so openly -- together you can better decide what to do.





Number three -- accept initially that you at least have a best friend -- many people spend their life without ever having a real one.





Kind thoughts,





HermesI think i have a problem i need some advice!!!?
someone who can take advantage of you....how could they be a good friend, good mate, or something else...





it doesnt matter what u feel for them...they give a damn to your feelings who can take advantage of your feelings for them
I AGREE WITH virsolus...
Just slow down your spending... I don't think you should talk to him about it quite yet though, give it time...