Advice about a bad boy problem...?

okay so there is this new guy at my school. and he is in my spanish class, at first i thought he was really cute, and soon i learned that he thought i was cute too. and when homecoming came around he asked if i wanted to dance. i was really excited and said yes and as soon as we started dancing i could smell alcohol on his breath. and it was really bad, my friends could smell it too. but we still danced and it was fun. then on facebook the next day he said how fun it was dancing with me. then the next day of school came and he didn't say one word to me or even look at me. but as the days went by he would start to stare at me. and it was very wierd, then one day randomly (2 days ago) he sent me a message on facebook that said hello. i was like hi. then he just started talking to me about random things. he was like we haven't talked lately and all that. then he said we should hang out and all that and gave me his number. and then just today my friend had something to tell me and she said that he texted her last night saying how he got my phone number. and she asked if he liked me and he said yes. okay thats the story but the problem is that he apparently does drugs and smokes and drinks, and is a big player that just wants to sleep with lots of girls. some friends say i should just give him a chance its not like we're going to get married, its just good fun, but then my best friend says to stay away from him and ignore him, and that hes just trouble, that i'll just be one of his toys. and another good friend tells me that i should just do what i want to do, but i don't know what i want to do. thats why i want to hear what you guys say. if you could give me some advice or tell me what you would do, that would be great thanks :)Advice about a bad boy problem...?
i say that you need to find someone better for you. He is probably just going to use you and you deserve better than that. find someone who acts responsibly and you know will treat you with respect and be loyal. Hope this helps! good luck!Advice about a bad boy problem...?
Just hearing about this guy and judging his credibility based on what you wrote.... g'head date him and learn from your mistake.
Well, he might actually like you, or he might be looking to just hook up. You won't know unless you hang out with him. If I were you, if you actually like this guy, then go on a date with him. Make sure it's a DATE though, go to the movies, or out to eat. Don't just hang out at someones house because that could lead to something else if that is his intention. If he agrees to the outing and you guys have fun then maybe he actually likes you.


Just watch out for the players!! Don't expect too much though because you don't want to get hurt :(
apparently he has a problems with drugs.stay away from him.he may tempt you to do some drugs with him.that's what usually happens when your involved with someone like that.DEFINITELY find someone else,it the right thing to do.he might even pressure you to do something that your not ready for.STAY AWAY.please./
A player and an alcohol junkie? Are you out of your mind! Trouble starts with asses like him. Anyways you have a reputation to uphold. Good girls don't go out with bad guys, however tempting it may be. Risk it if you want to, but this is life. Not a game. I hope you understand and are mature enough to think this over. This is coming from a girl who knows what she's saying. Be practical, listening to your heart will lead to disaster. Harsh, isn't it? Well, that's the truth I suppose. I know you'll do what's right. =D
dude. go to him, or come to my house. =] lol jk. but go for it. he'll be the one to gag you first
there's a reason, this guy is acting so weird. HE'S DRUNK! Dating an alcoholic can end in a disaster. This guy will do some crazy stuff in the future. This guy is and will be LOOPY. Do u want 2 date a guy who talks about random things and sleeps with lots of girls? Plus he smokes. Being around him means u inhale the smoke which is just as bad as smoking itself. U can get CANCER and maybe even die. I no someone who smoked and is now blind, deaf, paralyzed and has lung cancer. Some of ur friends r right. To him ur a prize, and if u risk going out with him any longer, u could get hurt. The worst scenario: u could die from inhaling all that smoke or get cancer. Why throw ur life away 4 this one guy%26gt;?
Wow that is quite a story. If he is in to drugs and drinks a lot then it's never going to change. You won't be able to change him. The friend that said you should go out with him is not very smart (not trying to be disrespectful or anything), because all he will end up doing is taking your money to buy his fix of whatever his poison is. The best thing to is stay away from and get a nice guy that will treat you right, because he will not. I've dated that kind of guy and it turns abusive really quick...emotionally, mentally, and physically.
If you want to be one of his toys than knock yourself put. If your looking for a serious relationship, the I'd stay away.
i think if you think theres a chance of you getting hurt then u should stay away. if you really dont care, then u should go for it and just have fun but if your looking for a relationship and u dont want to get hurt then u should be very cautious and dont put your feelings out there too quickly
See how smooth he is? He's got you almost wanting it.
I say go for it.


like99% off kids in highschool either smoke,drink, or both