I have a problem with a girlfriend and a best friend!! urgent if you're out there please give me some advice!!

I fancied this girl a few weeks ago. Then a really good friend of mine stepped in and made her open her heart to him - they were almost going to go out but there was a rumour going round that my old friend wanted to do impure things to her.....i feel out with him over it and thats how i got to know her. She reckons im really nice and stuff and i really want to go out with her but the only thing is she still has feelings for him - and despite knowing what he said they have decided to start over fresh. She likes me though - and my friend has no idea i fancy her.....its a sticky situation.





I don't want him to do anything bad to her and i might not be able to make her see sense!!! what can i do to detatch them and make sure shes safe [and to also open the door for me and her to go out?]????





Please help if you're out there i really need it :(I have a problem with a girlfriend and a best friend!! urgent if you're out there please give me some advice!!
Be a man! You need to toughen up my friend, softly soft approach might not serve you as well as you thinkI have a problem with a girlfriend and a best friend!! urgent if you're out there please give me some advice!!
it sounds like she chose him.. she wants to give him another chance so there isn't much you can do except be her friend.
Try being there for her whilst shes with your friend, don't lose the friendship you've already got!


Then, when it all goes wrong with him *and if hes like that, then it will* step in and be her prince charming! Always be there to show her that there IS someone better for her!
So you want to make her safe from him?





Is this so she can be unsafe with you?





All is fair in love and war and you lost out. TOUGH.





I'm sure whatever 'impure' things he is doing with her is exactly what you'de like to be doing!
Go out with someone else!! Girls usually get more interested if they cant get what they really want! That way ul kno if she does have genuine feelings for u! But its best going out with a gud female friend rather than someone who has the hots for you in a serious way....u dont want to be leading an innocent astray and getting a bad name for yourself!


Let nature take its course with ur friend %26amp; ur fancy bit, im sorry but she doesnt sound all that trustworthy if shes going out with ur m8 %26amp; spilling her feelings to u! If u were with her now, how secure would u b in that relationship?!
well, have you told her how you feel? And i wouldnt break it up if you do i have a feeling that your not going to get her. she is going to be wondering what if... about him. so let her go thru the heartache i know its hard to watch but be there for her thru it. that is the only way she is going to know that he isnt no good for her. they say you learn from your mistakes and she will soon but dont get into their relationship she is going to have to learn on her own.but dont distance yourself be there for her but make sure you tell her how you feel about her and let her know you want to be with her and your going to be there for her and wait for her.
did you friend know you fancied her before they stated dating. if yes go for it, if not back and dont hate the player, hate the game.
Remember: Bros before Hos!
If they have had problems in the past they will again. Don't get in the way just be there for her and perhaps she will see that you are the one for her. But if he is a really good friend of yours you better not even go there..Because it takes a lifetime to bulid up trust and only seconds to destroy it.