Saturday, July 31, 2010

Advice with a girl friend problem - seriously confusing !?

I've got a man thank you . . .





And i'm okay with going ahead and doing SOMETHING so that we can get it over with, but how do I do this without scaring her or something lol .Advice with a girl friend problem - seriously confusing !?
just be honest as mush as u can girl , what u guys did was wrong, but tell her exactly how u feel,, blv me that will help,Advice with a girl friend problem - seriously confusing !?
im a firm believer in enjoy your life while you can, just go do it , enjot it and get it over with. enjoy tour life dudette, try different things- =]





oh and by the way- did you know that int that whole question youve put ';im a private person';, and later on ';im an open person'; lmao =]





whatever floats your boat
Keep doing what your doing I guess. If you don't want to be with a girl in a relationship then you are looking for a female **** buddie. Nothing wrong with that. No chance of pregnancy!


Happy humping! :D





Alexa
If you like men stay with that don't get caught in the moment and its just thoughts and if you have a boyfriend that still would be cheating so both of you need to stop touching each other and being naked around each other before somethingyou really rregrethappens
tell her i'm not lesbian


and if she is ur friend


she will underrstand
Hiya,





Well, it seems a lot has obviously surfaced on the horizon due to the development and progression of everyday private habits being allowed to become shared intimately between seemingly 2 innocent 'girl friends'.





To both for example, shower together, visit the lavatory together, dress and undress together, for all the comfortable innocence that's clearly been claimed as approval from both parties, surely to a degree, this spells sexual chemistry





I think based on this, it's perfectly natural to be having these thoughts and feelings. Clearly, you have raised this question to the audience because there is now uncertainty. Why? Well, it's got to a stage, where seemingly, you now have feelings possibly on a romantic level, or just on the basis of sexual curiousity with this girl.





It seems from what you have represented, the relationship/friendship as it stands between both of you is bordering you both have a full on sexual encounter.








Now, of course there is an open to go ahead and it seems that part of you wants to, but I think at this stage, it's better to try and be sensible about this and therefore take a sensible and logical approach.





Your friend seems a more enthusiastic than you on this and it seems to be more apparent that she has not taken into consideration that you have or are already, in a relationship with a male.





Maybe she's more than contempt to share you, maybe it's just one big xperimentation to here.





A lot of can be just that sexual hot air.





For instance, just say if you go ahead with this, then the following day, you both realised it was the wrong move, then you don't need me to point out the impact it could cause both on your own friendship and your relationship with your boyfriend - is this seriously worth risking??





I think at this stage you need time apart from your 'girl' friend and focus on re-affirming sexual relations with your current boyfriend.





If it's just lust and impulse, then I personally wouldn't regard you in being a potential lesbian or even long term bi-sexual.





I think a lot of time will need to bed in before you will be certain of your feelings, principles and most importantly, your attitude and what you value in life.





If would urge your friend, if she is into girls, to approach somebody professional about this in order to be able to express her thoughts openly to somebody experience and who can give them a bit of perspective and guidance.





I hope this all helps and apologise for it being a long winded.





Cheers,


Liverred
You both need a man, and quick.
just do it you might just like it
I guess yall might as well give each other a taste not to be rude but why not
go and get laid :D lol go get urselfs some boyfriends and there
Well, as i see it you can rather, just go along with her, what ever she wants, or you can run the show and take control, and do what pleases you.





or just stop the whole thing right now if you don't want it. to be honest i don't feel like im helping the situation, because i dont think i understand it fully.
If she plays sports she is probably quite comfortable showering with other girls and walking around nude.





Just because there is sexual tension between you doesn't mean you have to do anything about it. The attitude ';I just wwanna get it over with'; is a horrible reason to engage in sex.





Sex changes the nature of any relationship. Your innocent loving friendship will never be quite the same. I don't know why this is true, but I know that it is true in most if not all 'friends that become lovers.'





Please think this through. In addition to having sex with your friend you have the consequences of cheating on your bf. Things always get complicated. Go Slow.
shes indenile and ur bi
sounds to me like your both curious. id say just go ahead and get it over with instead of dragging it out. she has told you what she wants and you havent told her that your not interested. so go for it get it out the way and figure it out from there

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