I'm not sure if I am being lied too or not. The guy is very nice to me and showed himself as very respectful to women. He spoke about how he was saving himself until marriage and that plus how nice he was too me made him all the more attractive. As word got around that I liked him a couple of folks started to tell me that he was different than he acted around me. Most of what I was told involved rumors surrounding him being a womanizer and having a lot of sexual partners. I talked to him about it and of course he denied it. Also, he word and actions are consistent when I am around (but I'm not around him 24/7, not even close). I'm not sure if I trust the guys who told me the rumors because they seem to have bad to say about everybody. I'm not sure who I would should believe. Any kind of advice would be helpful.Please answer!!! Confusing guy problem, and would love advice?
Well, if I were you I will definitely be a little more cautious with how he really is. Pay more detail with his behaviors and his attitude. How? Play some games with him or watch him playing sports, usually a guy's attitude will show from those things. No joke.
Since you really liked him, take his word for it. Unless its your parents telling you that he is like that then I suggest you listen to your parents. Otherwise for those gossipers, ask them to show you proof or tell you how they know. Get to the bottom of it. Take your guy's word as it is first, as you know whether his integrity stands at the end of the day when he really actually does those ****.
Anyway don't just let rumors affect your feelings simply. Have your stand and trust your instincts. Good luck God Bless.
Be careful though... :)Please answer!!! Confusing guy problem, and would love advice?
Belief what you belief, he seems to be a nice guy and he like being friends with you and maybe wants to go out with you.
hope it helped :P
You should slowly go into a relationship! SLOWLY and be careful
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