I have a jealousy problem, and need some advice.?

n my first relationship, i got cheated on. my second, he broke up with me for another girl, and one other was prolly the worst. my Best friend was flirting with my boyfriend and he was flirting back.All that has turned me into an extremely jealous person in my relationships.My current boyfriend is absolutely amazing. and i trust him with my life. but i know some grls that like him and are always flirting with him. and although he doesnt flirt back, i get Extremely jealous, just bc he is talking with another girl. MANY girls like him/think hes like amazing.and on mysace or AIM, when he says what hes doing (ex. 'nm, im just talking to you(: and __'; %26lt;- a girl) i get so jealous and i start to cry. im just afraid that i will do something so stupid and reuin my relationship or get hurt AGAIN. i dont even fully undertand it, cause its not that i dont trust him.no matter how much i convince myself that he likes me so much,and picked me outta all the other grls, im still jealous of them.Advice?I have a jealousy problem, and need some advice.?
Have you spoken with your bf about your jealousy? Does he know about your prior relationships?


Jealousy is a normal emotion. It's only when you let it control your other emotions that you have a problem.


Ask yourself what it really matters if you've been decieved before. He's not them. And you made a good point; he chose YOU over those other girls.


I wouldn't even let it bother you that you've been with some real jerks. Obviously you're better than them anyways. Take pride in the fact that you're honest and faithful. Respect your bf's right to have friendships. He'll respect you in return. Not every man is a cheating scum bag.I have a jealousy problem, and need some advice.?
well just think of the total oppisite of what you usually think.


like if you think hes cheatin then just think he isnt.


you are looking for reasons to be jealous.


just think POSITIVE


good luck