My friend has a boy problem and needs some advice!!!!!?

i know this is the wrong category but i'll get more answers here so don't give me crap please.okay so Im going to use names because if i don't i'll get confused lol. okay soo my friend jocelyn went out with this guy tommy 2 years ago. this year they're sophomores and ended up in the same math class. they sit next to eachother too. she still likes him and is pretty sure he likes her too. she tells me he flirts with her and stares right into her eyes gets all up in her face, and does other little annoying things like say something dirty . im pretty sure he likes her too but my sister says it could be him just be obnoxious. anyway she asked me my advise on where to go with this ';friendship'; should she leave it like it is? should she flirt back? what should she do? i know this sounds soo silly but shes my best friend and i want to help





xoxo from japanMy friend has a boy problem and needs some advice!!!!!?
one day, you should go up to him and ask him who he likes!!


then tell ur bffMy friend has a boy problem and needs some advice!!!!!?
Well, your friend probably wants someone with a little courage and conviction. So if he is interested in her he should man up and just come out with it. Something like ';I find you very nice, can I see you'; or ';I am interested in you, wanna go out, or meet at the ..........whatever';. Anyhow, women have some expectations that a guy has some nads about him and comes right out with it. Playing games with people, flirting and just coming short is not what it is all about. Let your friend know she should not seem desperate or make any sort of move that says desperate. Some guys more then some, but anyhow they pick up on this desperation or easy girl thing and use it to their advantage for other things like cheating and abusing and just being inconsiderate of her feelings. Guys without courage of there convictions are not worth the time of day. Let him grow up a little and should he eventually make some sort of verbal commitment then maybe she should take him up on it. But, until then get around some guys that gotta pair. Women need to give up on this little girlymen and show men, that they want men in their lives.





I have been around a while, and in the day we men lived by a code, a code of romance and chivalry. We didn't tee hee and flirt with girls, we just came right out and said what we meant. We learned to talk the talk and walk the walk.
tell ur friend to ask him out. itll work
just tell her to b brave and ask him wat hes doing. is he flirting or is he being annoying. just ask is all u can really do. hope i helped. :)
Well depending on the reason they broke up... If they broke up for a reason dont get back with him.. if they broke up just cuz it wasnt right then try agian
This guy is confident. But he's still worthy of some consideration as a human being. If your friend responds positively he will see this as permission to up the ante, to push harder. For what he wants.


What does your friend want?


We have to be careful in this whole boy-girl thing.


Your friend should talk to him and ask him where he's going with this.


For boys to approach girls is as scary for them as it is for girls to be approached by boys. They are keen to express themselves through sexual encounters. Fact of life. And not such a bad thing!


And they too are not totally aware of the emotional consequences of 'pairing up' even for one encounter.


Everyone usually responds to all this crap by making themselves 'hard'. This should be avoided if possible. It's better to stay soft and real in your dealings with others. We all deserve to be treated gently.





Enjoy your life.
sure she could try flirting back


just hope that the guy really does like her back





btw putting questions in the wrong section wont get you any more answers