We - my family - have a problem. I need some advice on how we can resolve this issue ( some help plz)?

long story short.


my son and his girlfriend had a baby, we are English, she is welsh.


they split up, she want's to keep the baby in wales and raise him in wales with the welsh.


we want him home, with his family where he belongs, with my son, in England. we are in the north, about 190 miles away from wales.


my son is taken her to court so he can have him up here. can anyone help us. how can we bring him here, my son is going for him tonight and he's going to bring him back to his own country, to his own people. this a good idea.





she has some family down there but their NOT family, we have never meet them, only her. this child needs his real family.We - my family - have a problem. I need some advice on how we can resolve this issue ( some help plz)?
no offense but what makes you think your family is more ';family'; than hers? tell your son to do everything legally and you need to stay out of it. if he was grown enough to make that baby, he's grown enought to deal with it. not for nothing, but if anyone tried to take my son away from me, i would knock there damn head off their shoulders. and i would drive, walk, or fly the 190 miles to do it!!!We - my family - have a problem. I need some advice on how we can resolve this issue ( some help plz)?
your acting like the mother of the child isnt important how do you think she will feel if you go down there to take her baby away from her. You wont be able to anyway you cant take a baby away from there mother unless she's unstable and unable to care for the child. I dont see how you think the mothers family isnt the baby's family just because you havnt seen them it is unfair on the child to take him away from her aswell.
I have to say being a mom the child belongs with the mother unless she is deemed unfit and I understand you being the grandmother want this child with your family. I also am a grandmother and I would have to respect the right of the mom to want to keep the baby with her even though my heart would be missing the child this kind of custody battle will really mess up the child in the long run there is alot of control issues here.
Hello. It seems to me you are taking sides. It took two people to make this baby, and that is all there is to it.


Those two people who made this baby, are ultimately responsible for that baby, no matter what their families might consider!


If the families of these two people got together and worked out ways to make things work so that the child had the very best of both worlds, then that would be a very good solution, and one that would reap the best results in the long run.
You sound like a bigot. Why is her family any less family than yours? This child is a mix and there is nothing you can do about it. You need to think what is best for the child and a healthy friendly relationship with all family involved is what is best for this child. Get off your northern high horse and treat them like the family they are.
look he cant get the baby through a court order unless she the mother is proven to be unstable.why fight over this?As you being the parents stay out of their business.Let those 2 agree on the child stay.just leave it like it is.He gets the child like a court order will grant for them both.every other weekend,etc.let those 2 work out the issue,plz...
The Court will decide on what's in the best interests of the child, not who's got the most relatives. The Court will always give the benefit of the doubt to the child's mother, so you need to come up with a convincing argument.
Both your son and the girlfriend are the child's family. Just because you don't know her family does not mean they are not the family of the child.





The courts will decide who gets the child as well as visitation and such.
the mother will always be mother and the court will side with her.
Get the court involved. Sounds messy :(
Really sad to hear this!