I have and interracial relationships problem, could use some advice?

First of all I’m black and proud and don’t have nothing against other races or color of any women. I have been going out with my girlfriend for a while now and we really get along and love each other. She is not white or black but she is multiracial. She is half Australian and half Brazilian she looks white but has a light tan skin complexion and she has her very own unique look.





When we are together I started to notice that some people at high school would act weird and stare. One of them is in one of my class and somehow we ended up talking about my girlfriend and asking me like dumb questions. She asked me “you are such a sellout, why can’t you date a black girl are you too good for them or you just like light skinned girls only?”





I think she really meant it because why would someone say that. When I was with my girlfriend at the end of the day I was feeling really guilty and awkward. I did not tell her about what that other girl said but I feel real bad about it. That some people don’t approve with are relationship. Should I let it pass or talk to her about it?I have and interracial relationships problem, could use some advice?
People always want to put others in a box that defines THEIR reality...not necessarily yours. If you spend your life worrying about other people approving of your actions...well, let's just say you may as well never leave the house because you can't please anyone. Just do what makes you happy. If you and your girlfriend love each other, treat each other with respect, and want to be together, then you are both going to have to grow some thick skin and just say ';eff it'; to how others may feel about it. You are not obligated to date only one race, and for someone to judge you because of who you happen to fall in love with is just plain ridiculous. Keep your head up and good luck to you and your girlfriend!I have and interracial relationships problem, could use some advice?
It's too bad that their are people out there who not only harbor those feelings but that they feel they have to express those opinions to someone else. All I can say is don't worry about what someone like that says. Best way is just to ignore them and do what makes you happy.





For what it's worth no I would not tell her because then she may feel like it's somewhat her fault.
I think that you should talk to her and let her know but you should not let it bother you. Remember this, she is the person who makes you happy and that's what is important.
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why should what they think bother you. i know that because you're in high school, it's kinda hard to not care, but if you really care for her, stay with her.





i'm not white, and it's hard to get a boyfriend who will go through the whole interracial dating thing in high school, because everybody talks. however, at the end, only you know if it's worth it.





you know, in college, interracial dating isn't a problem at all, in fact, it's the norm.





also, it may be hard to act on, but are you really going to let one black girl in high school ruin the experience of interracial dating.





another thought (sorry, i'm blabbing :) ) is


what if she likes you? maybe she's just trying to get you to dump your gf.