Saturday, July 31, 2010

This is do with some advice for my teenage-crush problem....pls give me some advice!TEENGAERS ONLY!?

i have got a HUGE crush on a guy....he's really popular and all the girls fall for him.. i m not pretty or beautiful.... so i decided to go after another guy....he's really nice...pls give me some advice...do u think an ugly girl like me would actually have a chance with a hottie????????? HELP!!This is do with some advice for my teenage-crush problem....pls give me some advice!TEENGAERS ONLY!?
Never think you are an ugly girl.Love doesnot come on external appearances,but it sprouts from the deepest part of your heart ie is your mind beauty.Keep your mind relaxed and feel that you are the girl with the best character in the world.Throw out your foolish inferiority complex.You can win a handsome hearted boy with a good character and a good mind.Remember external appearances are always deceptive.Even Shakespeare has told';Love is not love that changes with time and does'nt depends upon rosy lips and cheecks';in his Sonnet no116.This is do with some advice for my teenage-crush problem....pls give me some advice!TEENGAERS ONLY!?
Hey girl! I think you should stop saying/thinking that you're NOT pretty/beautiful thing!! Everyone's pretty/beautiful in their own ways! And it's not the external beauty that counts!! Don't really bother to be around a guy who thinks you're ugly! Pleeese! If someone says so...';Slap him!!'; You should be with a guy who thinks you're pretty! You should be with someone who's crazy about you (well, not the being-pretty-thing alone, but how you're! u know the inner beauty!) Hope things will turn around and u'll score! Goodluck! :-)
are you actually ugly or are you one of those chicks who post a picture somewhere online and 100 guys will sit there telling you, ';zomgyou are SO HOT'; but your still like, ';no, im fat...';


anyways go with what you want.


)emohasis on you)
to be honest if u think or say that ur ugly then u probably won't have a chance with this guy, coz most hot guys can be a bit above themselves and would rather have a prettier girl on there arm then a not so pretty girl. but one of the main questions u have to ask is do u like this guy for just his looks or do u like him for who he is. if u like him for his looks and nothing else then try forget about him, especially if u've already met a nice guy hu u like for hu he is and u'll probably have alot more fun with him.


if u do like everythin about the hot guy then try give urself a make over which'll improve ur self esteem and get noticed :P
1) Your not ugly, don't you ever tell yourself that.


2) If a guy every calls you ugly, slap him.


3) If you want this popular guy of yours go for him. If he doesn't like you for you then he's not the type of guy you want anyways. Someone once told me ';Don't confuse a boy's values with a man's values'; You want a man and if this guy is that shallow then he's just a stupid boy who missed out on the opportunity to date a wonderful young woman.
do you just think that he's hot or do you KNOW HIM and like his kind personality and his character? If not, then its just a shallow crush, like the ones that pre-teens have on movie stars. If that's it then you better just find yourself a nice guy 'cause he isn't worth pursuing.
well it depends..if hes all stuck up or sompthing then no and i really hate guys like this..but if hes actually a nice guy then you have a verry high chance..it all depends on what your like
I remember when I used to have this big crush on a girl too. I'm not really that ';hot'; in terms of the hotness meter, nor am i a part of the football team. I was actually a quite a geek. So, naturally, I'd think that I won't have a chance in hell to ask my crush out for a date. So I went my own way and decided not to push my luck. In short, I never got to ask her out.





A few months later, there was this big activity in school that we became groupmates. Fortunately, she wasn't the snobby type, so she and I became friends. We hung out, and eventually, I got close enough to try my luck. I told her that I had the hugest crush on her and I'm just telling her now because I didn't have the guts to tell her sooner because of all the guys flocking over her. And then what she said surprised me. She told me that she was never the type to go for ';handsome'; boys, although she wouldn't mind it. She told me that I had a great personality and that if i'd have told her sooner, things would've been different. She was already seeing someone else and I guess I a little bit too late.





After that ordeal, I thought that it's not about having the best looks, or the smarts. It's all about the timing. Given the right circumstances, a geek like me could've hooked up with the prettiest girl in school. But, since fear got the better of me, that didn't happen.





I guess what I'm saying is, even if you think you're the prettiest or handsomest person in the universe, it's not a guarantee that you'd have someone. my only advice for you (after what seems like forever since i've practically told you my story. lol!), is don't try too hard. These things will come, I've learned that now. Keep it real and continue liking him, if that's what you want. but don't be too quick to convince yourself that you won't have a chance, because only the gods know who wins. :)





hope i've helped.

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