Marry Christmas everyone i have a problem with my gf advice please?

I suspect my gf is cheatin on me she been acting funny lately not making up excuses not seeng me and stuff. She didnt even spend time with my on my b day she had someone bring me my gift at 2 o clock in the morning, thats when she called me and told me to look out side of my door step. Well anyway her step mom told me that she was cheating on me with her son, now her step mom and my gf are not that close so how should i confront her about this. I told her step mom i wouldnt mention her name but i wonna say something but at the same time i dont wonna be messy ya know. Furthermore i want to spend time with her for christmas but she makes up excuses again. I would drive down there but i dont drive you see so it makes it difficult. I am really hurt, sad, and depressed and my christams is not looking all that great.Marry Christmas everyone i have a problem with my gf advice please?
She's probably dating someone who knows how to spell, or at least how to use spell check.





Next time that you see her, ask her if she is cheating on you with [fill in the name].





If she hesitates, or looks away, then she is probably lying. If she gets angry, then she is probably telling you the truth.





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I wouldn't call, because then you cannot see her reaction.





BTW, liars will often change the subject (like, by asking ';who told you that!';), and refuse to answer your question no matter how many times that you ask.Marry Christmas everyone i have a problem with my gf advice please?
im sorry if the step mom says she is then she is


and well if and i will never


cheated on u thts wht i would do


and well if she didnt bring u ur present then she didnt want to see u im sorry sweetie hey just email me
Right....


I think you should confornt her and ask her if she is cheating on you and going out with some one (her strp bro) and like that person said in another answer if she hesitates she is lying and if she gets angry she isnot lying! xx


i wish you the v. best of luck with your realation ship with her..or someone else! xxxxxxxxxxxxxx
im sorry to say this but your gf is being an inconsiderate *****.


my boyfriend has been blowing me off for the past 2 weeks now and i bought him a silver necklace for xmas and i wanted to give it to him yesterday and he was in a cafe near me but he refused to see me because he was with some girl and his friends. he hasnt replied my txts or offline msgs.i hate to say this but the parteners we have atm arent right for us and are selfish dickheads. you should tell her how she is making you feel, tell he rhow hurt u are.and if she really gave the littlist **** she would tell you the truth no matter how painful it may be.and tell her all you want is the truth and u dont care what the answer is, you need to be relieved. if you need help or want to chat you can chat with me on norz-lost-and-found@hotmail.com


gud luk
how old are you? are you kidding me, yes she's cheating. dont call her dad or brother. dude move on. do you know how many girls are out there? lots and lots. trust me, you will get over this and find someone special. this chic is not for you.
oh, no RUUUN! ahe is definatly playing u . she is bores w.you ,but still wants you for (airquote'; company';). dump her b4 she does u. you b less hurt that way.
whoa this is too deep...





I would call them both up and see what's going on especially if her mom or step mom or whoever is telling you they are sleeping around .





that's not a normal rumor. Wake Up. She's a whore
It might be a bit too late to sort things out 2day, for her to come down for Christmas. After Christmas you need to ring her and then you guys will meet up then you will ask her str8 away of what going on. Tell her that you find it hard to trust her because of the way she been acting. If she did admit that she cheated then you might have to give yourself two options, (1). If you really love this girl and she says shes ready do change, then you gotta give her another chance and try to forget about the past. (2) If deep down you think its not worth it working things out between you two, then stay strong and try to move on, find someone you can trust.


Staying like the way you are now, not finding out from her what exactly happening will just makes things worse, the longer you leave it the more the hurt and sadness it will cause. sort it out with her once and for all. Wish you luck
well 1st of all how long have you two been 2gether?





she could be getting bored of you and wants to do more exciting stuff.. or maybe she just doesnt like you nomore. if you two are a proppa couple i should think ud be able to talk about these things.





i suggest having a talk with her. if she makes up excuses about not wanting to see you then somethings wrong.
Well atleast u ain't the only one bro I'm feeling the same way u are.