What is my girlfriend's problem?! I need your advice QUICK!?

My girlfriend told me when we started dating that she has really bad mood swings...just fyi.


What does it mean when my girlfriend said ';You looked at me the way my dad does.';? After she told me this she started crying and buried her head in my chest. Also...Her and I were having an argument yesterday. Sometimes when I go in to give her a kiss, she'll turn her head the other way....


Also, yesterday we were at her house. She was in her room changing clothes, so I sat down on her couch. When she came back in, instead of sitting down on the couch by me, she sat down on a love seat on the other side of her living room. She is 18 and I am 22. Seriously...wtf is her problem? I'm starting to think she is not mature enough to be in a relationship with me. Do you have any advice for me on how to get it across to her that how she treats me and behaves in bad?What is my girlfriend's problem?! I need your advice QUICK!?
Yeah, I have some advice. Run. Run like your life depends on it. Any chick who starts a relationship by stating that she's got bad mood swings is going to make your life a living hell. She is super insecure and that results in a controlling wench who always needs to get her way.





Trust me, I don't care HOW good the sex is, you will find someone that is even better in bed and much more secure - If you find another, I promise she will treat you well.





Do it man. Save yourself. Run for your life.What is my girlfriend's problem?! I need your advice QUICK!?
Maybe she's mental?


Or shes on her period 363 days of a year? (not including leap years)


Maybe shes just having some family issues.


Confront her yourself, don't ask yahoo! Just go up to her and ask her why she acts like this to you and that you love her but your not just someone for her to take out her problems on, if you have a problem then tell me and I can try and help you but don't just treat me like dirt when all I've tried to do is love you


(or something gay like that)
Maybe it's just an issue of maturity? You need to give some more detail of what's going on inn the background for someone to be able to give better suggestions of answers. The ';like my dad'; thing sounds like you are focusing too much, or it was totally random. Again, way more info would be needed. How long have you been dating her?





Additionally, given the age level (her being 18), she might simply be afraid of being physical at all - many women feel pressured in that or afraid of it.
First off she most likely has bi-polar and you need to ask her if she does. Second, she is clearly immature. Well just talk to her about it and if she is mature enough she will explain everything to you and you guys can resolve this. If not I would say this relationship is going no where,but in the end it is up to you goodluck!
the only way to do it is to talk to her. if you yell at her its a fight and if you act the same way to her, she gets in your face. as for the dad thing, it could be that she misses her dad (if he isn't around or dead) or could mean you looked at her like she is a disappointment but you are right, it sounds like she is a little immature. either that or she just isnt thinking about what she is doing. either way you gotta talk to her. Im prayin for ya buddy
I wouldn't take everything so seriously but I guess if she does this a lot it could get old. Sit her down and talk to her, let her know that you're not cool with how she's acting. Give her a chance to explain and try to listen. If things don't get better, you're probably right about her being too immature.
She's 18...so good luck with that one. Honestly, while the 4 year age gap is not huge in number, in terms of maturity it's a HUGE JUMP though.





You just need to sit down and talk to her calmly, smoothly and rationally. Don't get frustrated or upset, even if she does. Even though it sucks, be the bigger person here.
I think you're right. She needs to either grow up or have a major attitude adjustment. She sounds a an immature spoiled brat.
maybe you are saying or doing stuff which upsets or annoys her. She doesn't have to sit next to you all the time so don't take everything to heart
you should try talking to her about these problems, maybe she's having a hard time with something else in life you don't know about.
get away from that sico my ex was like that and it Just gets worse it aint worth it
You already hit the nail on the head, but since you had to ask, I would say you are prob not ready for one either. Look homie, girls are a thing to get sex from until you are older and are patient enough to put up with their bull crap. It doesn't get any easier, you will just be better equipped to deal with them and as your sex drives slow down you start realize what you really want from a person and hey cant use sex as a weapon anymore. The more you ignore, the more you win
I think that all girls I cal l her a girl bc shes 18, look for someone who is like there father in a guy. Me included, our fathers we look up to and respect, and they love us as we love them, and they way they treat our fathers is how we treat our men, if she calls him daddy they have a close relationship, if she calls him dad, its more respected, if its father, then hes one of those dads that dont hug their kids and are reserved etc.





If you were angry at her when you looked at her, she is refering to you as scolding her like her dad did or does and she just doesnt like being told what to do by two people versus just one.





She basically wants you to be the boyfriend and let her dad be her dad someewhere ... i know women are wierd but remember your dealing with an 18 year old (no offence to any one) but ther maturity level is diff... just maybe if u relally like her support her and be more boyfriendly then authoritative