Ok so heres my problem... whenever i get into a relationship with a guy i like them for basicly a month then i fall out of liking them, i dont know why. I am currently with a guy that i feel more like friends than anything else, I am very slow with relationships. But im not sure if i want to dump him or not because he looks really happy but i kinda want to be single and move on. I'm not sure what to doI have a problem that i would like advice on = )?
just tell him how you feelI have a problem that i would like advice on = )?
Quit stringing him on , and let him move on..
Then quit getting into relationships, until you know what you want...
Well...it seems no one can acutally help you here. Its a personality problem you seem to have, you like a guy for a short period of time and dump them no matter what.
Try overcoming it and find a guy you know you wont dump is all i can say.
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Think about it life isn't fair at all is it. Do what you feel is right. You must also think about this. Do you think you are going to be the first and last girl that might break his heart? You must live your life for you and not anyone else. It's better to leave now rather waiting and really hurting him or yourself.
I would say if your heart really isn't in the relationship then your not being fair to either you or him by leading him on. He may be happy now but in the long run you guys will end up breaking up and it will probably hurt him more later. I think if you feel more like friends with the guy then that's what you should be, you should tell him you gave it a try and you really enjoy his friendship but that's all your looking for right now. I just think leading him on because you feel sorry for him now will end up leading to more problems later on.
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