I don't know what to do, i'm confused and i need advice? this is really long problem but i have to ask?

okay well i have a friend and she has been dating a guy for a long time now and she feels like he's her best friend and she loves him so much. the thing is he went on to college and she is still in high school, so obviously they aren't going to be seeing each other a lot. he tells her he loves her and she's the most important thing to him, over the time that they have been dating he has done a lot of things that made her sad. but she always forgives him no matter what her friends tell her or anything she always goes back to him. when he went to our school he would pass her by in the hall way and not even acknowledge her he even walked in her class and didn't say anything to her, i told her where he is at in the morning and she started waiting there for him but soon after he went another route. well she lost her virginity to him in 2007 and she was only 16 young and he's like two years older than her i think, well in all the time that they've been together he hasn't taken her out on any dates with her. and he comes home every weekend but usually she never sees him and she will always tell me that she might be doing something when i ask her if she wants to hang out. and she was feeling sad one day and was explaining how he never just wants to hang out because he's says he is always busy but if they are going to do it he's more than happy to see her...i think they text each other like all the time, and call each other possibly, but that's the only way they communicate i think?


i really love this girl more than anything and i really just want her to be happy. she really is completely in love with him and wants to spend her life with him, and he tells her the same thing. we've been friends longer than she has even known him and we're good buddies and we're never really serious about things. she used to open up to me a bit but not as much as her old friends that she stopped talking to. but now she doesn't really even show her emotions to me i think because we had gotten in to some fights about opening up and stuff like that i think. so now she only really shows her feelings to this guy i think is using her just for sex.i want to tell her that he's just using her but i'm not sure if i want to ruin her happiness so should i confront her about all this stuff or what!? i'm not sure what to doI don't know what to do, i'm confused and i need advice? this is really long problem but i have to ask?
wow this sounds strangely familiar...I don't know what to do, i'm confused and i need advice? this is really long problem but i have to ask?
tell her how you feel on this situation and help her see it through your shoes and let her see that your there for her and her decision on what to do! your a really great friend for trying to help her i hope everything works out! :]
that guy is such a loser he probably doesnt even llike her he is probally using her for *** so yeah